Is this the gym or…?? Appropriate workout attire

[taylorexo]

I am new to working out and have signed up for the gym close to my flat. It was my first time stepping into the gym where I felt so uncomfortable in my attire. I was wearing sweats and an oversized t-shirt for my first gym session. As I walked around the gym, I noticed other girls in workout clothes that reveal more than it covers and men in muscle tank that basically has less fabric than a women’s tank.

To me, the gym is a place to get strong and for health reasons, but it seems to others, they’re there for a beauty pageant or competition. It literally feels like I’m being judged because of my outfit and my physique. Also, why is everyone filming themselves?

The gym is supposed to be a place for me to get stronger and to look better so I feel more confident, but it is the last place I feel comfortable and confident in.

Discussion

[jax]

We all started somewhere. Keep in mind nobody was already in shape before the gym. Your main focus is getting stronger for yourself. Literally nobody is judging you because everyone is just focused on themselves. We film to keep track of our progress and form. If that bothers you, let them know or workout somewhere out of the frame.

• This reply was modified 6 months, 1 week ago by  jax.

[kinsleykush]

Lol sounds like ur just insecure.

[theresatokes]

@kinsleykush Is it hard to not comment if you have nothing nice to say?

@taylorexo I was uncomfortable when I first started at the fitness centre too, but I soon realized that nobody is actually paying attention to me. Yes, there are glances here and there, but I glance at people too. Instead of viewing it negatively, use it as inspiration to get fit. People are friendlier than you expect there. I’ve had people guide me with my form too!! 🙂

[taylorexo]

@theresatokes Thank you girl. Will keep this in mind. Been trying to just focus on myself and not look around so much. So far it’s helped.

[ashlee420]

There are going to be arseholes at the gym who may judge, but there are more people who will uplift you than anything. Don’t let that stop you.

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